Friday, December 30, 2016

Smart Powerful You: Happy New Year 2017

Smart Powerful You: Happy New Year 2017: It is assured, another series of your journey is about to begin. I pray that all your plans be manifested in 2017. Some of you experienc...

Happy New Year 2017

It is assured, another series of your journey is about to begin. I pray that all your plans be manifested in 2017.

Some of you experienced personal or professional betrayal and hurt in 2016. Painful as it may be; you are given a chance to rewrite your story and your narrative depends entirely on you. You have a choice to wallow in the sadness and self-pity of negatively retelling it over and over again. Or else, believe in yourself and know that whatever happened in the past is done, move beyond past hurts, disappointments, and failures. The most important thing is the lessons learned in that experience. Believe in yourself and learn to trust again, but this time around, God. Love everybody, trust God.

Some of you are weighed down by unexplained and debilitating illnesses.  Be grateful because if you are still breathing, I believe God wanted your attention because when your darkness overpowers your light, the only way out is to be still and wait on Him.  moreover, it is another way to know those who are truly for you. Whenever you need clarity as to who is for who you are, not for what you have or can offer; get sick, lose a job or be in some kind of emotional distress. That is the best time to apply some discernment and trust the leadership of Jesus to help you separate scorpions and snakes in your animal kingdom and thorns and thistles in your garden.  

As you toast and welcome 2017’s new beginnings and new opportunities; I wish you a year of enlightenment and spiritual awakening. May your crushed spirit and heavy heart over humanly inflicted pain find a way to look beyond what happened and apply wisdom in the old saying “everything happens for a reason.”  Never allow the roots of bitterness and the desire to revenge dull your shine, use your energy towards worthy causes. 

Last but not least, remember that life is not a series of unchallenged successes.
Where you have failed, it’s time to setup for your comeback.
Where you were betrayed, it’s time to actively listen to the warning of your inner voice.
Where you’ve been hurt, forgive.
Above all, learn to surrender all of you, your plans, your doubts, depression, discouragements, relationships, finances, etc. to Jesus.  He will direct your steps and help you remember that He never promised us an easy journey, but He will always be there when the seas roar and storms rage out of control. 

A Happy 20 Serene Elevated Victorious Enlightened Noble Thriving Exemplary Exceptional Neighbourly

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

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Sunday, June 22, 2014

Youth Energy, Leadership and Creativity

When social, economic and political issues are meaningful to the youth, when young people have a voice over their social position, and when their energy, leadership and creativity are considered as part of the processes in change for sustainable development, countries would realise increased active citizenry, self reliance and a comprehensive knowledge of civic education.

Young people are the world’s largest human capital, and many of them around the world are already making contributions to their neighbourhoods, societies and countries. But, their work should be further harnessed to facilitate participation in decision-making and policy development. Consequently, the best and perhaps even only option to comprehensively impact the significant range of contemporary social issues we face internationally is through positively developing the youth.

Most young people in Africa face longer spells of unemployment than adults, regardless of their level of education.  This poses serious problems for social stability and peace because; their energy is released on destructive social habits such as crime, drug abuse, anarchy and violent civil unrest. In tackling the epidemic of global youth unemployment, the United Nations Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon, called on governments to invest more in youth employment initiatives and promote decent work.

It is therefore only through early leadership tuition and involving youth in creative learning processes that could stimulate a mental position of self-reliance.  


This requires social leadership and social entrepreneurial programmes that transforms them into robust and visionary young leaders who dare to make the first move in creating justified social issues, sustainable economic opportunities and stable political environments. 

This Could Have Prepared Me

The year I turned 20, I saw myself making a huge contribution to creating change in Africa. I was in my second year at Cape Peninsula University of Technology and still in the euphoric state from witnessing Nelson Mandela’s inauguration as our first democratically elected president. The diplomatic rhetoric in the mainstream media captivated my attention as most of our leaders narrated the notion of Africans uniting. That fuelled my senses with overflowing hope as I filled my mind with Big Dreams and an idealistic vision of visiting each country around our continent to advance my vision of working together towards African exceptionalism. As a young girl, I couldn’t comprehend why we’ve always been perceived as the “Dark Continent”, the Africa of “The Gods must be Crazy” film or as portrait in Joseph Conrad’s s novel “Heart of Darkness;” an image of Africa that is dark and inhumane.  

20 years down the line the plans and dreams I've envisioned hadn't come to fruition. One thing naturally led to another as I evolved and got busy with life, but more importantly I grew timid and got frightened each time I convinced myself that my dream is far-fetched. This was because I was confronted with the reality that, world leaders toil endlessly at global summits and yet we still face war, poverty, famine and other daunting challenges. It was only after I saw my son’s T-Shirt inscribed boldly “Africa is not for Sissies” that I rehashed my youthful spirit and stirred myself to believe we can still do more as Africans. We can courageously employ our resourcefulness; harness the strength of our people to sacrifice and work harder towards growth and sustainable development.  Nevertheless, much as I come back with a renewed spirit, allow me to enlighten you on what I wish I knew then, because I understand it better now. I do this with the hope of preparing you to confront your fears when met with hindrances along your journey to contributing to positive social-change. I have three suggestions that I wish someone had told me.

1st You’re never too Young To Think About Your Role as a Leader.

Virtually all young people have a clear perception of what is wrong in the world and vivid ideas for constructive change; they lack only the confidence and skills to carry them out. Their ideas and energy should be translated into a value system that will enable them to become good leaders. A desperate need for effective and ethical leaders exists in every community, in every neighborhood, in every country. Fortunately, the fact that you are reading this piece is in no doubt a sign that you have decided to break out of the herd mentality and have chosen the less traveled path of influencing others in a positive way. NOW!!! Is the perfect time to see you as the LEADER the world have been waiting on to create positive changes that will impact greatly on humanity???

2nd Emotional Intelligence Is A Critical Component Of A Leader.

Society needs more ethical and effective leaders willing to take responsibility to make things go right through guiding people toward using their fullest potential to meet the rational needs of others. Emotional Intelligence will open your mind to ‘stable values,’ that will provide a solid foundation in building your charismatic influence as a leader. It will provide you with an opportunity to explore your inner being and your impact on others, as well as the ethical basis for human relations as you create a language to talk about real life issues in a safe and authentic way.

3rd Develop Critical Thinking Skills That Produce Better Life Choices

The company you keep does have an impact and influence on your choices, be wary of who you’re rolling with because it influences your thoughts, your beliefs, your language and your outlook in life. Responsibility to yourself means refusing others to do your thinking, and the essence of leadership is an independent mind that internalizes wisdom before reacting. Harness your critical thinking skills, prepare to learn more and use that knowledge constructively as you genuinely detach from popular opinion or coerced social discourse and make a difference in your environment.

When I searched inventions that took place 40 years ago, I was delighted to discover that in 1974 (the year that I was born), a young Professor of architecture in Budapest (Hungary) named Erno Rubik created an object that was not supposed to be possible. His solid cube twisted and turned - and still it did not break or fall apart. With colourful stickers on its sides, the Cube got scrambled and thus emerged the first “Rubik’s Cube”. It took well over a month for Erno to work out the solution to his puzzle. Little did he expect that Rubik’s Cube would become the world’s best-selling toy ever?

There's so much to do, and there's never enough time. There are deep problems, painful problems -- problems that quick fix approaches can't solve. As I researched and prepared this message, I became particularly interested on how countries around the world are preparing young people to get involved in decision making processes. I suppose this to be the best approach to drive our majestic continent forward, and I accept as true for as long as I feel young, I shall rename the Rubik’s Cube to the Africa’s Cube and turn social issues that are not supposed to be possible into workable solutions created by young minds.


“I am not young but I feel young. The day I feel old, I will go to bed and stay there. J'aime la vie! I feel that to live is a wonderful thing.”  Coco Chanel




Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Be Resourceful, Committed and Drive Change

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Be Resourceful, Committed and Drive Change



Hello Everyone,

Today I want to ignite your thoughts and get you thinking on how you can contribute to the achievement of the Millennium Development Goals. Sometimes it may seem too farfetched and idealistic to even think you can do something to make the world a better place, let alone your immediate social environment. To make matters worse, when you show initiative or propose programs that might help, you are looked down at as crazy or unrealistic.

Stop thinking you cannot make a difference….

We all sometimes view ourselves as detached from world issues that affect millions of people living in poverty and dying of hunger. This is not helpful. Do you look at other people and what they are going through, and then ignore their plight or comment on how it is  somebody else’s responsibility.

The problem with distancing ourselves from such challenges is, somebody will always think that somewhere someone ought to be doing something. Expecting other people to do something is the same as saying “I want to fight poverty, famine and deadly diseases” when what you should be doing is to actively participate in programmes and interventions that advocate for such challenges.

One of the most important tools that you can use is the Millennium Development Goals. To contribute means to actively drive forward one of the MDG targets that appeals to you the most. If you can do this, you will connect to individuals, groups, societies, institutes and organizations that make an effort to lend a helping hand in making the world a better place. If you can commit a fraction of your time once a week to share your ideas, resources or skills, you can do more than just wishing for someone to come and do something. Or even worse, complain and blame those in authority for not doing what you think could be done. Your level of interest in doing something will increase as you engage with likeminded people who will stop at nothing to be the change they want to see. More about this next week...

The Millennium Development Goals

GOAL 1: Eradicate extreme poverty and hunger

GOAL 2: Achieve universal primary education

GOAL 3: Promote gender equality and empower women

GOAL 4: Reduce child mortality

GOAL 5: Improve maternal health

GOAL 6: Combat HIV/AIDS, malaria and other diseases

GOAL 7: Ensure environmental sustainability

GOAL 8: Develop a global partnership for development

So how can you contribute to the achievement of MDGs?

Here are just a few ways that you can start:



  • focus on one or two goals that appeals to you
  • familiarize yourself with your goal/s’  targets e.g. Youth Employment and Migration can be handled under Goal 1
  • tell yourself that you can make a difference
  • all we need from you is your ideas or skills or resources that can accelerate the MDGs
  • contact us, we have lots of ideas on how we can all work to make a difference

Already chosen a goal to focus on …well done!

Till next week when we find ways to contribute to positive social change…

June Mokoka

















+27845221536 mjmok3thereformistafrica@gmail.com  

Monday, March 31, 2014

MANTU

It was 12 April 1974, and Mantu Bantu was just a few weeks short of seventeen. She was an average girl in every way, tall but not outstandingly attractive, the only thing which sets her apart from the other girls in the village was her strength of character. It was an unusually hot day, the blustery wind coming straight in off the Indian Ocean, and even in the shelter of the golden leaved platkroon tree’s generous shade, it was very hot.
Mantu’s stomach lurched and her legs buckled under her body. She knew only too well that running away with André Hart was to rob her mother the comfort of a secured employment, but a small part of her had clung to the belief that Madam Hart would be merciful because her mother had been a dutiful servant for the Harts. She should have known better.

Much later that afternoon, still waiting and in doubt, she lay on the lush meadow, and found her thoughts slip back to her home and family at Mooiplaas in East London. She knew now that she had been born more fortunate than many of her friends. Her father, James Bantu, was a farmer, and although there had been hard times after her father’s detention, somehow he’d always managed to make sure his family never went to bed hungry or lacked clothing. Mantu could remember being cuddled up in bed with her sisters Malindi and Nobantu, hearing the strong easterly deafening winds at night, yet feeling safe and secure, for her father reinforced their thatched roof with wire and left enough money to tide them over the harsh winters. Just thinking of Mooiplaas with its tiny dwellings made a lump come up in her throat. The small vegetable farm that kept her mother busy as she could sell some of its produce and the nearby game farm that belonged to the Hart family never created a dull moment, they got along well with the Hart family and the Bantus were a well-respected family. Nothando, Mantu’s mother, set great store by respectability; she kept their house spotlessly clean, and tried to instil in her daughters her high standards in needlework, housekeeping and cooking.

Mantu’s older sisters, Malindi and Nobantu, were the dutiful ones, compliant and happy to follow in their mother’s footsteps. All they could talk about was their dreams of finding husbands and having children on the nearby village. Mantu did not share her sisters’ dreams. It was often said by her father that she should have been a boy. She was clumsy with her needlework and household tasks bored her to death. She was happiest when her father brought her books to read, for she felt at one with her daring female characters and could keep her excitement till she meets André to narrate all her reading adventures. She preferred his company to her sisters, for he talked of exciting things he wanted to do like travelling around the world in 80 days, of war and hunting. She had no time for plain girl conversations full of gossip, flirting, latest fashion and nothing more than the price of fish. It was a thirst for adventure which made her want to leave Mooiplaas, and she had a strong conviction that leaving her world was the only way she could make her mark upon the world

Her mother and sisters were unkindly towards her for spending too much time with André because that inhibited eligible Xhosa village boys from meeting with her. In fact her mother arranged for her hand in marriage with a friend’s son, because she was afraid no one would ever want to marry her once she’s much older. Mantu had no real desire for marriage. If truth be told, too much reading introduced her to a world of love and romance, instead she felt pity rather than envy for the girls she’d grown up with who were already saddled with four or five children. She knew that her life would be miserable in an enforced marriage; hence she was determined not to succumb to her mother’s wishes. But then life was hard for any African woman in South Africa, unless you were from the White ethnic group, work was either teaching, nursing or becoming a housemaid. The only reason she was still around was because André convinced his parents to let her help in the farm school library, which enabled her to read more books and that broadened her mind. She didn’t want to spend her days cleaning after someone’s mess or raising their ungrateful offspring.  The alternative was teaching and nursing, and although she enjoyed imparting knowledge, she was afraid she will end up like Mrs, Anna Fuba, her school teacher. She has taken a liking of her since childhood, and enjoyed the freedom expressed in their tête-à-tête as they shared narrations from the books they read.

No one ever unleashed their full potential in the confines of their place of birth; you challenge the status quo only to be viewed with astonishment and contempt. You become the talk of town, and if you are a woman you become socially ostracized because you are seen as having gone rogue. Mantu would listen with concern at Mrs. Fabu as she relates how miserable her marriage was. Her husband was one of the kindest men around but could not project the same kindness at home. He had everything he needed to be counted as a real man in the social scenes, an educated wife who made a decent living and carved a refined lifestyle for them. For a sales person at a furniture store he was not doing badly either. A beautiful house and five sons were just what he needed to boost his ego and boast about to most of his clients. What they didn’t know was that the ambitious Mrs. Fabu’s life is less eventful and dull at home. Her husband struggled to love her well, the challenge was that her emotions, and her constant need to talk about her feelings annoyed him. As a man, he could not relate to her need to talk about her emotions, he looked at her through his masculine lens.
She likened their marriage to a wash machine, everything worked out smoothly up until the spin cycle started. One cold July afternoon she came home prickly from an unbecoming conversation with her sister-in-law. She needed to talk about it, but he considered his sister’s offensive utterances to his wife trivial or unimportant. He gave her a glazed-over look, saying to her, “Hey, listen, this will blow over. What’s the big deal? Stop being a victim and ignore her, if this is not true why bother about what she said.” She would walk away frustrated, wondering why he didn’t take her seriously. Everything would smooth out eventually, until the next spin cycle hit. The periods of calm were okay except that the emotional space that built up between them each time the cycle hit was affecting their marital intimacy. He didn’t understand why she couldn’t be strong and bold like she behaves outside the confines of their home. When she got all emotional, he usually retorted, ‘Come on, you’ve got to be stronger.’ If she got teary and cried while trying to express something that was bothering her, she got that look of disdain and he would mumble, ‘Here we go again…why can’t you pull yourself together?’

Matu asked herself if this is what many women who were married went through, that picture perfect of holding hands in the park, and words she read about in her novels such as “I’ll be your shoulder to cry on’ were they just fantasies. She wondered about her mother, aunts and all these other women and asked herself how many go through this in the name of marriage. She murmured to herself, ‘I am not going to be stuck in this rut; I have to run away from this misery, depression and a loneliness as soon as I can afford to.’
She had read about many cities around the globe like Australia, Rome, Paris, New York and London. She imagined fine shops and big houses there, and opportunities for anyone with determination. She thought she might get work in a bank because even though she adored reading, she was sharper in calculations and preferred mathematics in all her subjects. She knew that with her father not around her mother will have mixed feelings about her and André, because their friendship was slowly developing into something more. 

Mantu couldn’t wait to get away, yet now as she lay on the lush meadow and recalled the morning events when she left her home, she was filled with remorse. It was very early in the morning when her mother yelled, ‘Mantu! Mantu! Come over here at once, if you know what’s good for you.’ They heard from a far of relative that her father has been detained without a trial for suspected political activities and yet nobody knew which prison was he incarcerated. In her determination to uncover the truth, she planned a trip to Cape town with André’ to meet Andrew Burger, a renowned journalist and a close friend of the Harts. She didn’t want any further lectures from her mother about leaving the situation alone, or being wary of her relations with André. Her mother had never been given to displays of emotion, so it was a little unnerving as Mantu went to embrace her to find herself suddenly being hugged tightly. ‘Be a good girl,’ her mother said, her voice cracking. ‘Say your prayers and don’t get into any trouble.’

Mantu remembered how she hurried away, fearing that she might suddenly change her mind. Her mother looked older and strangely defenceless, yet she didn’t have a clue that her daughter had no intention of returning back home. It was the marriage she arranged for her with Themba Gyenya that sent her packing. Even without being able to see her face clearly, Mantu knew she was crying. Yet, the thought of her life being mapped out for her encouraged her to soldier on and never look back.
******

Mantu was an intelligent and sensitive girl. Spending her days with Mrs. Fabu sharpened her social skills; she had observed every aspect of the huge divide between Black South Africans and white South Africans. It wasn’t just that the white had impressive houses, servants and ate well; their children were protected. Most of the black ethnicity relinquished all responsibility for their children long before they even reached Mantu’s age, turning them out and expecting them to find work to keep themselves. With this in the forefront of her mind, and the fact that it was illegal to socialize with a white boy she turned to Mrs. Fabu for advice whilst they were plotting their runaway.
‘André have never been outside the borders of Mooiplas on his own,’ she said firmly, taking up a position at the side of their hut, her hands on her hips. “Harts have always been farmers. Being a farmer is highly regarded in our community, and it’s been passed down from father to son for five or six generations. So what do you think his father will do when they find out that their son and heir took off with a black girl?’ ‘He’ll alert the police on us and I could be arrested,’ Mantu responded, her eyes wide with fear. ‘That’s exactly what you’ll get for your trouble,’ she said, nodding her head. ‘But it will break your mother’s heart, your sense of adventure has gone too far, you could be charged with kidnapping a white boy even if he is the same age as you are, and they will throw you in jail and throw away the keys.

We haven’t got much, but we the people of colour have always had our pride. ‘Your father had constantly appealed to me that i made sure  you get more out of your education,’ she said, softening a little and reminding herself she was just a light headed teenage girl. ‘What we want is for you to go to university, that way you can e whatever you desire.’
‘How could he ensure that I get all that when he is not around and my mother has already agreed to put me up for marriage with a man I don’t want,’ Mantu retorted with some belligerence. ‘Maybe that’s what you should agree to for now, and I will ensure that this doesn’t interfere with your education,’ Mrs Fabu replied angrily.

Matu sighed deeply. She could sense an air of desperation between the two of them. Mrs. Fabu knew that much as she would like her to have her freedom, she didn’t approve of her ways to go about getting it. The trouble was that, upon realizing that they were both gone, her mother and siblings could be thrown off the farm or even worse alert the police and she could end up in prison. She was on a treadmill, and until she found a way of getting out of this mess, she had to settle for a loveless marriage. ‘Now, promise me you’ll consider and think things through before you go tomorrow? Or I’ll tell your mother what you’ve been up to and she’ll have no choice but to alert the Harts before the two of you get into trouble.’ She explained. She gave her promise, but she knew it was an empty one. She could see no sincerity in her promise, and knew her well enough to assume her encouragement did anything but deter her. She gave her some money and a street address in Gugulethu, a township in the outskirts of Cape Town.
*****
Mantu came out of her thoughts to the sounds of footsteps walking towards her. ‘Come, get up!’ Dazed; she got up hurriedly and asked him if he was ready to go. ‘No, I’m not coming with and I am sorry about that!’ blurted Andries, out rightly. The boy, all apprehension, said, ‘I have to tell you something very disturbing about your father’ André said cautiously. As he came towards her, weighed down by his mother’s revelation about James Bantu, he looked all in, his shoulders were stooped and he was wheezing with the effort of walking.
‘Your father was never imprisoned, he…he…he ran away with his mistress and your mother fabricated the political activist story to protect you and your siblings. Mantu faded and dropped her bags, ‘Oh my word’ she exclaimed, hugging herself and starring tearfully and questioningly at Andries. ‘She did that to protect you, please understand,’ André ventured fearfully. At the same time he felt some sympathy for Mantu and her family because he knew how much embarrassment a scandal such as would cost her mother in a small community such as Mooiplass.

Yet all at once, he also knew that girls like Mantu are forced into marriage, and that could be the reason her mother protected their reputation to avoid being labeled the scorned woman. André instinctively moved towards his friend and put his arms around her, Mantu had been his comforter, friend and confidante. Thanks to her, he can boldly stand up to his family and has convinced them to treat black people with dignity and refrain from following the apartheid laws. He didn’t know if there was any way he could help Mantu out of this tight spot, but if there was one, he’d find it.
‘Don’t make any decisions without ado, Mantu,’ André said comfortingly. ‘We’re both worn-out now, but if we put our heads together we’ll think of something. I’ll take you home and we can talk more tomorrow.
Mantu drew back from Andries’s arms and wiped her still swimming eyes but he could see she was struggling to regain her composure. ‘You’re a good friend Andries,’ she said, her voice shaking. ‘But it’s you who must go back home. I’ll proceed with my plans and I swear to never return. I can take care of myself and I will find a way to just do that.’ She responded.  With tears in his eyes, he gave her Andrew Burger’s contact details and promised to let him know about her just in case she needs help while in The Mother City.

*****

An hour or so later, Mantu wiped away the last of her emotional tears and turned her mind to her future. She had experienced so much in this place; most of what she learned about life was from what she read. She still couldn’t believe that her mother was prepared to give her away in marriage even though she knew how she felt about it. Her father would have never allowed it because he always encouraged her to follow her dreams. ‘That bastard has abandoned us without a word’ she thought, her hero turned worst coward instantly.  She was ready for what lay ahead. She had had so many dear and good memories she is leaving behind, but the freedom of getting what she wanted out of life encouraged her to push on.
*****

What Mantu hadn’t anticipated was that hundreds of people in the streets of Cape Town were more educated, prettier, vibrant and more confident to present their case in employment opportunities. All she landed was a job in a Catholic Mission, teaching the prescribed curriculum limited to the dogmatic principles of the church. She could not expand beyond the confines of the school curriculum and her living conditions in Gugulethu township were very uncomfortable. She contacted Mrs Fabu’s friend the minute she arrived and was introduced to a funny looking woman with only one canine tooth as her landlord.  Her bed consisted of a very thin sponge and the neighborhood looked strange because it consisted of rows of tin shanties that lied alongside luxurious mansions, four roomed houses named match boxes, piles of garbage and pitted roads with dirty water streaming down the streets. She shared a a match bosx house  with a mysterious couple who seldom communicated but their constant brawls kept her up most nights.  It was hardly two months when the landlord threw her out, the couple accused her of stealing and all other irrational issues that made cohabiting unpleasant, but that wasn’t true. All she’d done was refuse to let the man have his way with her. Without anybody to lean on she couldn’t get a descent place to live in, and she was too proud to go home or ask help from Mrs. Fabu’s friend.

The instant she met Clive Drum at her work, she knew that she was on the way to hell in a chariot. Surely no decent young woman would allow a complete stranger to offer her accommodation and promise he would introduce her to a trade that makes more money whilst working at her present job.  But, there was something intriguing about this witty character and the sparkle in his brown eyes, and the stories he told her about living and surviving in a big city captivated her. Clive wasn’t bound by any of the rules Mantu had been brought up with. He cared nothing for the religious fraternity, the Church, or indeed any authority. He had a courteous manner and was generous about admiring Mantu’s abilities, and he was more fun to be with than anyone she’d ever met before. Maybe it was partly because she had a crush on him and his poetic description of her was mesmerizing. No one has ever told her that she is beautiful, her intelligence and strength was the attributes she often got appraisal for but never once was she praised for her beauty. The first day with him was spent detailing the way to make extra income, even though he omitted the fine points. He made her feel so important, her whole body seemed to blaze, and it wasn’t just excitement for gaining an extra income. It was his wit, the feel of his hand in hers, the suggestion that she was on the brink of something dangerous yet wonderful too. With retrospection she ought to have suspected there was something amiss when he never attempted to kiss her. He looked at her fondly and told her he loved her, but it never went any further than that. At the time Mantu had foolishly believed his prudence was out of shyness, but it was only later she discovered the truth.
*****
Clive cared for no one but himself. He was a human trafficker by trade, and when he’d spotted her innocent country girl appearance there was no turning back for him. All it took was a few sympathetic words to win her trust. It never crossed Mantu’s mind in the first few weeks after meeting him that, he encouraged meaningful conversations between them every evening in his quest to determine if she will be the best conduit for his business. She was too anesthetized by his charm, animated by his attention-grabbing friends with their expensive taste, and overwhelmed by his generosity to study him closely. By the time she did become aware of it, she was so fixated in his undemanding, amusing way of life that he could have told her he was a callous human being trader and she wouldn’t have turned a hair.

14 August 1974 is a date etched forever in Mantu’s heart and memory. At around 01h00 she woke up with a fright when she suddenly recalled that  she wasn’t home. The comfortable bedroom quickly reminded her where she was, she quietly went down stairs to drink some water. The light in the study room was a curious blue green, with the rain pouring she thought Clive could have forgotten to switch it off. When she turned the door knob, she was surprised to find Hilda and Catherine with about 10 young girls and six boys all tapped with wide scary eyes. Mantu shut the door and turned back but before she could move Hilda pushed her right back into the study room.
 ‘Don’t you dare make a move?’ she shouted.
Mantu, was just lying there on the floor staring into space even when Hilda slapped her hard on her cheek she didn’t so much as blink. ‘Don’t you think is time to initiate her?’ Catherine asked.
‘Initiate me on what?’ Mantu asked.
‘The rain, the thunder and lightning,’ Catherine ridiculed.
Hilda said. ‘Why don’t you tell her first what happens to people like her when she can’t keep her mouth shut on what she just witnessed.’

She could barely bring herself to listen to the rest of the instructions for it was revealing a side of Clive she hadn’t known existed. There was some apprehensiveness about his coming in and going out, she attributed it to gambling or drug smuggling but not this. She had been a fool to assume him not taking any interest in her romantically was to take it slow and build up something passionately lasting. She became more astonished when he refused to see her and instructed his aides to tell her that is what happens to ambitious farm girls like her, and that in big cities it was commonplace to suspect overtly generous acts from a stranger. Mantu, who had been brought up to be honest and God-fearing, didn’t entirely agree with him about that, but she wasn’t going to say so. ‘I will come out of this, come hell or high water.’  She thought instead. Mantu was no shrinking violet; she gathered her thoughts whilst being in great agony and panic, remembered all the books she has read and knew that life rewards the courageous few. She saw too that she had allowed herself to be fooled right from the start. She was beyond tears now.

Less than an hour later, she was instructed to write to the mission school she was assisting at and let them know she is not coming back. This was to curb their curiosity on her whereabouts lest they report her missing. Clive had already decided that he would use her as a conduit. Nonetheless the woman told him many times about her desire to travel and see the world. After she was given instructions and stern warnings about being part of the human trafficking syndicate and its repercussions for back stabbers, she was immediately given a new passport and new identity. To her surprise, five of the children abducted she recognized as those from the mission school, they looked at her with hopeless fear and she wondered if they thought she had anything to do with this cruelty. Thinking fearfully in her father’s words, she unintentionally murmured, ‘It is okay to feel the fear when you want to do something, but fear doesn’t have to stop you.’ With those words she was determined to find a way out of this mess.

‘I’ll write the damn letter, but I’ll be damned if they oblivious to not associate my disappearance with those five.’ She pointed at the five children from her school.
How would their disappearance be associated to you, and what do you care you will be out of the country by the time anyone notices.’ Hilda retorted.

The door opened and Catherine led the kids out in a row like lamb getting ready for slaughter. She prepared some concoction to put them to sleep so that when Timothy arrived to collect the cargo it will be easy to load them in his minibus, and that will make sure they are out until he safely crossed over the Namibian border.  Mantu was given all the instructions and was left alone to write the letter whilst Catherine assisted Hilda with the consignment. What they didn’t know was that this farm girl was far too intelligent to be likened to any street wise city girl. She waited a few minutes, grabbed the phone and dialed Andrew Burger, quickly explained the situation and asked him to be very careful as there were some police officers involved. To her surprise she recognized who she was when she introduced herself and asked he to act dumb and not be too confident as he worked on a plan to get her out of this mess.  

‘Hilda, go through the contents of that letter,’ instructed Catherine. ‘I did, and it is well written, nothing suspicious to make us anxious,’ she said. ‘She might have written some codes that will give away our entire plan,’ said Catherine.
‘Clive said we should go and all other instructions will be provided once they have reached Katima Mulilo.
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Mantu wanted to open her eyes and see whatever lies in front of her, but the night was too dark. It was a sightless and long road with ditches, she couldn’t make out if it was her imagination or she could actually faintly sense the heavy breathing of 16 souls neatly packed in containers like objects.  They kept her awake despite the tedious ride and the aloof Timothy. It was more stressful during the day when they had to stop and refuel or refresh and stretch. Timothy was well trained as he had all the provisions required, and he allowed her to refresh in the plain fields where no one can meddle should she decide to cry out for help. When morning approached, Mantu’s face was heavy, but soon to be blanched by a road block next to the boarder of Namibia.

She was a bit apprehensive because the network of law enforcement officers in Clive’s circle could make all this go away without any justice served. She was a little anxious, gone were the positive thoughts and her courageous demeanor when faced with a perilous situation. She could barely recall what she told Andrew Burger, and all she could think of was how she can be as easily implicated because of the five children she knew. She suspected that even if they brought in a strong police force, however many sober minded and honest police men and women tried to stop the trafficking of women and young children, vice and corruption will always hinder progress.

Timothy was silent for a moment, and then he said. ‘Maybe this was all part of the plan, terrible though but it was,’ he said. ‘I should have stayed home with my wife,’ he cried. Mantu had a pang of guilt, she was also afraid that Clive will get away, whereas Timothy will pay dearly. She was not even sure how much could be pinned down to her. She suddenly gave Timothy a deep look and said, ‘Listen here, listen to me you coward don’t you think it’s time to stand up and make a difference.’ The only reason men like Clive get away with such pitiless actions is because men like you keep quiet and suffer alone. You now the syndicate better than anyone, and you could anonymously pimp them and get your get out of jail free card.’ She retorted. To her delight, Andrew organized a press conference, and he prudently alerted the police about this operation. She knew that despite her ambitious streak, she could do nothing at this particular moment about the plight of the thousands of other young women and children trafficked into and out of the country. Whenever she tried to rouse people’s sympathy she met a wall of indifference. Yet she was determined that she would do something to get these evils stamped out.
*****

So, for all she’d been able to do was create an awareness to educate society about this perpetual evil, yet there was still so much more that needed to be done. Sometimes Mantu felt that the task she’d set herself was like trying to empty the ocean with a two liter jug.  Over the last 40 years Mrs Hart together with her husband André Hart had been instrumental in getting only a few human trafficking lords prosecuted. They had rescued a total of three hundred and thirty-five young women and children, and have partnered with organizations around the world fighting the trade. But that was only skimming across the surface of a sludge filled with ill-fate they could never reach.